Learning the language of Autism

 

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social media and observations

The complexity of humans, the desire to interact and voice our opinions is as ever strong.  Since having Dazlious and finding myself advertising and promoting ourselves on social media I have engaged in many blogs and others Facebook pages and such like. 

With this I have seen the many benefits of using this media for the above reasons.  I do feel that the positives outweigh the negatives, Personally I have seen people on the autistic spectrum voicing and sharing their vulnerbilities and challenges.  As a mum to an autistic child, I find this not only incredible helpful to me personally but also very brave.  To show your vulnerabilities is pretty scary, most of us spend a life time hiding or denying them to others for fear of rejection or even ridicule. 

Recently I have witnessed someone I know who is on the spectrum sharing their anxieites on their facebook page.  He is an adult with autism, lives alone with his beloved dog and has support workers assist him a few hours a week.  He used to have almost 3 times the amount of hours of support a week until his hours were reduced in the latest government cuts.  This caused great stress for him, not only for the feeling of injustice but also the practical support he now lacked.

A marathon of events have led to more anxiety and stresses for him.  He has been kind enough to voice these, I am sure to help himself but to also educate others in the reality of what it can be like for someone with autism. 

He has mentioned many times on facebook that he has felt he was bullied by some people,comments were not just disagreeing but abusive and often cruel.  This does show a lack of understanding on others but if the bullying comments are constant they can become damaging.  I am grateful that he shares his experiences for 2 reasons. As a mum to an autistic child, He inspires me as well as educates me. Also for his human spirit, his detemination and want to help others by allowing his vulnerabiliy to show though his sharing his life challenge and joys.

Bullying on the web is rife and we have all read the tragic outcomes for some people.  

I guess putting yourself out on social media means we have to learn to take the rough with the smooth, learn boundaries and use the security services available on such sites.  This applies to all of us. Knowing my son and so amny others now autism is a part odf our life, has really helped me see a bigger picutre, for all of us.  sometimes the behind the typing we read on the sites are extremely vulnerable people, who may find it hard to vocalise the things they write about face to face.  I feel as humans although we now spend huge amounts of time communicating via type, we do have the ability to feel compassion and have gentleness in our hearts for others.  Sometimes this form of communicating gets me thinking that with all the other 'signs' like facial expressions and voice tone etc we miss out on the sensory cues that can help non autistic peope understand a person more clearly.  So perhaps just having the type to read gives us a tiny minute feeling of what it can be for some people pn the autistic spectrum who are unable to read those cues from faces...so the tables are turned! 

I will always support my friend if I see some are misunderstanding him, I offer them adivce and sometimes a telling off and I offer my friend advice as he has offered me over the years. I allow my heart to rule even though I am reading type from people I have no idea about.

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