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Asking for help

This blog is all about me learning to ask for help, something I would very rarely do.  Funny as in the past it didnt even occur to me to ask for help when it came to parenting.  I would chat to people about some difficulties we were having, sharing the joys too, asking for actual help, never.  

You see, back then, I felt it was a given that as his mum and professional nursery nurse I should know what to do in every situation! This seems so unreasonable of me to put such pressure on myself,  I can see that now.  

I have learnt that asking for help gives others an opportunity to learn about autism as well as me getting the help I need.  

Communities were how we all lived years gone by.  Some of these communities were socially classed based, some on what languages we spoke and religions we practised.  Others if we were really lucky (my opinion) would be a mixture of all of the above.  A mish mash of languages and skills, expereinces and differences, cor imagine a comminity where everyone was completely different, unique and shone brightly and proudly so all could see? What an amazing commmunity it would be, we could probably find solutions to problems and create amazing things together. The more the merrier!

So now I get it, asking for help isn't a sign of weakness as I once believed, or that I was somehow a burden on anyone i asked. If someone cannot or will not help, ask someone else but mostly know you are worthy of asking for help. we all need it sometimes, and I also know that people love to help! giving and sharing is such a joy. 

Often I put something up on facebook and within 24 hours I have an array of suggestions and ideas that I can choose from.  

Sometimes, answers cannot be given but listenning  is always a help, a hug, a cup of tea a compaasionate heart, all help, i solation, helplessness of feelings we do not have to endure, we have how many millions of people living on this beautiful planet? a LOT! No one need be alone. Or struggle on their own, no one...community is the heart of our lives and our souls.  I am grateful for my community of friends of all manner of differences, if you feel you haven't  got one, then create a new one, you will be surprised how quickly it grows.

 

Kerrie Berroyer

 

 

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